What Lou Rawls Taught Me About the Power of Knowing Yourself

If you listen closely, you can hear the typing, scratching, and scribbling of resolutions all over the world. Lists upon lists. Perhaps a top 10. A top 20. Items you promise to address and attack. Better eating habits, more time at the gym, being more present. It goes on and on. And it’s such a positive intention, but does it really work?
I used to do this. The lists grew exponentially longer. At one point, I was categorizing them, from “Personal Goals” to “Professional Goals” to “Writing Goals” to “Fitness Goals,” etc. But what I found was that the longer the lists grew, the more impossible it was to tackle any of them. So I reduced and reduced some more. I reduced so much that it made cooked kale look like an infinitesimal reduction by comparison. (As an aside, how does a giant bag of that powerful green stuff over a hot flame become the size of a blade of grass?) But I digress!
I reduced my resolutions until I was down to one sentence. Then ultimately, I was down to one word. Conjuring up one word that I could weave throughout anything and everything I would do in the coming year. And I found this as effective for my life as it was fun. If I can be honest, I started this one-word idea about four years before I saw the launch of a jewelry line where “your word” was emblazoned on some kind of bangle. Kudos to whoever came up with that!
Jewelry aside, the second smartest thing I did around my one-word mission was to share this project with the ‘Cats here in the office, so the new tradition for the past three years has been to gather in a room in early January and let the words fly. I’m always impressed — though not surprised — at how thoughtful the ‘Cats are every year about their word, their rationale, and how and why they chose it.
This year was special. Just a sampling of some of their words: momentum, future, trust, focus, shine. I ended up taking all of the words and throwing them into a figurative gumbo. When taken together, these words for me are all about seizing the day by capturing the moment — and trusting your gut. And as I related to the team, I define “momentum” as maximizing a moment. And in 2020 I have a feeling we’ll be maximizing many of them.
Cheers to your success and health and whatever special word drives your life onward and upward in 2020.
— Peter Madden, President & CEO, AgileCat